The person behind the public figure

Family & Personal Life

Gandhi's closest relationships included devotion, partnership and deep conflict. Understanding them makes his life more human—and more complicated.

Mahatma Gandhi with Kasturba Gandhi

The Gandhi household

Father

Karamchand Gandhi

Diwan of Porbandar and later Rajkot; known for practical judgment, courage and loyalty.

Mother

Putlibai Gandhi

Deeply religious, observant and compassionate. Her vows and fasting profoundly influenced Gandhi.

Wife and fellow satyagrahi

Kasturba Gandhi

Married Gandhi in 1883. She endured prison, led women in protest and died in detention at Aga Khan Palace in 1944.

Eldest son, 1888–1948

Harilal Gandhi

His troubled relationship with his father exposed the painful cost Gandhi's public mission imposed on his family.

Second son, 1892–1956

Manilal Gandhi

Worked at Phoenix Settlement and edited Indian Opinion in South Africa for decades.

Third son, 1897–1969

Ramdas Gandhi

Joined campaigns and lit his father's funeral pyre at Rajghat.

Youngest son, 1900–1957

Devdas Gandhi

Journalist and later managing editor of the Hindustan Times; married Lakshmi, daughter of C. Rajagopalachari.

Daily life and discipline

Gandhi rose early for prayer, walked, spun cotton, answered a huge correspondence and held communal meals. He simplified his clothing after seeing India's poverty, adopted vegetarianism, practised nature cure and observed a weekly day of silence.

His vows—especially brahmacharya from 1906—and experiments in diet and self-restraint were central to his search for truth. Some later experiments and his treatment of his wife and sons remain controversial and should be studied critically rather than idealised.